I have never seen 5 year olds eat so much! The minute we
arrived all the children came running to the car and helping to bring all the
food to the table. I would expect thirty kids who eat the same boring thing
every day would be rushing towards me with a plate and spoon ready to eat and
fighting for food. This wasn’t the case at all; the older children made sure
the younger ones had a seat on the bench and a spoon and plate to eat with and
then they found their own place either squeezed in or standing. They each said
thank you nearly 10 times and sat patiently waiting for us to serve them food.
We each gave them their plate and they all waited until they all had a plate,
said grace and dug in. We had plenty of food; they even got to have seconds!
Some of the small children ate more than I could have even eaten myself. I wish
I could get them the meal they had tonight once a week or even a month. The
children AND teachers even ate the bones; I spoke to another volunteer who is
at our hotel but working at a different orphanage, and she said that they eat
the bones as to not have ANY waste. The children were so excited and full of
energy you would have thought it was Christmas; singing, music, dancing! As
soon as everyone was done the children got three buckets and without even being
asked to, washed all the dishes along with the heat boxes we carried the food
from the hotel in, the tables, and the benches. After playing music, taking
pictures, and dancing with the kids, I wanted to stay all night but it was
sadly time for us to go. These last few days will be hard and I find myself
planning my next trip in my mind; the thought of never seeing these children
again is hard to even think about.
I stayed up a little later than I normally do to have a
drink with another volunteer who is here doing work at a different orphanage;
her name is Marcela, and she is from Scotland. Note to self: beer is even MORE
dehydrating in Africa. We chatted for a while about how she is able to come
here as often as she does at her age (36) and still raise money for the
orphanage EVERY time she comes. She said she has a fundraiser every week where
all her co-workers put a dollar in a pool and one person wins the pool of49
pounds; half goes to the employee and half goes to the orphanage- that’s about
25 pounds a week! The euro exchange rate is 2.85 wowzer!!!! While we were
chatting she informed me of a conversation she had with one of the younger
workers here at the hotel. Princilla is 19 and wants to go to school soon for teacher
training. She asked Marcela “If she had black people in Scotland”, Marcela of
course said “yes a few”. Princilla responded with a question that was honestly
scary; “If a black man and a black woman have a baby in Scotland, does it come
out white?” Marcella caught her thoughts for a second and responded “Princilla,
it doesn’t matter where it comes out, it’s going to be black”. Princilla seemed
confused but just said “ohhh hmmm ok” and shook her head. Some people here are so sheltered and have no
idea about so many basic things depending on where they went to school or if
their parents even sent them to school; it seems like a waste of a good human
brain with so many possibilities that are in the world.
Monday: it is hard to concentrate on teaching like we have
every other week we have been here with the end being so close. I feel like
there should be no school this week and we should just get to play with the
kids every day all day until we leave. We are trying to take pictures of all
the things we haven’t over the last few weeks; teachers, our classes, us with
kids (I photograph horribly!) Rachel looks exactly the same in every picture
like you could take her face from every picture she has ever taken and they
would all be the same. I swear she has a “perfect picture smile” she presses
before every flash. Whereas I look scared meets pained meets sick in all my
pictures haha… One day I will master the whole “smile for the camera thing”. I
have been trying to get you guys a good picture of someone with something
outstanding on their head, but it’s hard to secretly snap a picture. You really
have to just see it though, I mean they will put ANYTHING on their head and
just walk with it there. I am on a mission!
<3 Good Things
dinner looks great and so do you.i can see in your face how much you are enjoying this,maybe all of us can start a little 50/50 raffle and start an orphanage fund we'll talk when you come back stay cheery and they will all love and miss you until you can return.who would'nt
ReplyDelete<3 I just love reading these stories, Jess. My heart breaks for you, I know how difficult it will be for you and Rachel to leave all those happy little faces! You've fallen in love with one another...you will still have an impact in their lives after you leave. xo
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